You know what Aud, I was just emailing SOH and realized something. We have been giving our spouses too much control over our lives. We have to take that control back. Make plans for you and the kids and if he can't afford to come along, then maybe he will come to the realization that what he had wasn't so bad. My H just can't seem to make up his mind as to what he wants, OW or me. So you know what, I have to take back the reigns and make the decision to be in control of my future. If God doesn't see me with him, then fine. I will find that man that is willing to take care of me and my family. No more living day to day with H's emotions. I am going to live day to day with my kids. It kind of feels liberating to come to that realization.
Sorry to babble on your thread. Just wanted to give you a few things to think about. Have a great day!
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
