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3-Center my decisions and attitudes on things that make me feel happy and self-sufficient, instead of worrying how every little thing will impact our R.




Once you can do this you WILL be a much happier person.

Like TL said earlier it is about being in the R as much as the WAS. I had a tough time getting to this point but after this past week I have seemed to just suddenly de-tatch from everything about my W. It is wierd and was not planned. It seems to just happen in a lot of peoples lifes. It is not something you really control either. It is a process that takes place from getting a life and stying focused on the important things in this world and the most is "YOU".

Don't know if you have read any of my sitch but detatching was the hardest thing for me toda but like I said it just happens. It is like the weight of the world is off of your shoulders.

Take care and work on yourself and finding things that keep you happy.

Later,
O

Ben 32
STBXW 29
3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months)
Status: Fighting for the Kids.

"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."