Sweetie, my H seems to be the same kind of person. And, especially now, is the time you want someone DYING to spend time with you. I KNOW. sigh.
I have no words of wisdom (hell, I can't even work up the gumption to post on my own thread yet today, maybe tonight) - just wanted to support you and hang out on your curb.
Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Is 43:18-19
If it seems slow in coming, wait. It's on its way. It will come right on time. Hab 2:3