It's funny how we guys always need time to think about it! It used to tick me off when my W would ask me some question that she had been pondering for days and then want an immediate answer out of me. Once I asked her to give me some warning so I could think about it too. You know, in the morning say "where do you want to go for vacation, can we talk about it tonight" That would give me time to ponder and not feel like a dummy for saying "I dunno, let me think about it". Oh well, your post just brought that up for me. Hope it relates to your sitch in some useful way
It used to tick me off when my W would ask me some question that she had been pondering for days and then want an immediate answer out of me. Once I asked her to give me some warning so I could think about it too. You know, in the morning say "where do you want to go for vacation, can we talk about it tonight" That would give me time to ponder and not feel like a dummy for saying "I dunno, let me think about it". Oh well, your post just brought that up for me. Hope it relates to your sitch in some useful way 