Oh, and one more thing: Is it okay for me to ask him to fill me in on his whereabouts a little more? When he left this afternoon, he said he'd be back in an hour. It's been eight. No H, no call.

On one hand, I'm fine with just letting him be (GAL, letting go, etc.), on the other, this is a chronic problem that has been going on for years and ultimately helped facilitate his A's..."I'll probably be home Wednesday."...he usually arrived the following Monday. Every trip.

At what point do I demand (right word?) respect?


Me-36
H-36
3 young children
Married-14y