I wish I could keep the presence of mind to stop flying off the handle every time there is a bump in the road. I think that overall, I'm doing a good job of detaching, letting go, etc. But I do find my mind automatically jumping to the worst case scenario when something happens.

I am getting better at recognizing what is occuring, but need to improve my response times so that instead of going over all the terrible things that could be happening, I am consciously choosing to have faith and not fret. Life will be much simpler if I can master this.

I also have to let go of the fear that I'm turning a blind eye to major problems in our R. I'm not, just looking for new ways of positively addressing them as they appear.


Me-36
H-36
3 young children
Married-14y