Thank you so much Cat. I've read a lot of that post now, and it's making sense to me. It clarifies a lot of things my H has said, that most of this I'm going to have to work out on my own. When he said that, it sounded so cold. But I can see that it's just plain fact. He can never do enough to heal me. I have to do it on my own with God's help. I have to get over myself, because the A never was about me.
