**if in good faith he doesn't pursue contact with OP and does what is reasonable to reassure you**
He does not offer any reassurance regarding OP unless I specifically ask. Is it unreasonable or damaging for me to ask?
One of my biggest worries is that he talks as if it is completely fine for him to continue traveling for business, to the locations of the affairs. He took me along on this last trip, but there's no way I can do that every time with small children, not to mention the fact that I have no intention of being seen as his chaperone for the rest of our lives.
I know that this is a hurdle I'll have to face when the time comes, and worrying about it won't solve anything, but I do feel like I need to prepare myself with some sort of game plan.
