We just got insurance, too, for the first time (both self-employed). It doesn't cover counseling, tho!

And our c is very expensive...but worth it.

So, if your original issues were your H's anger, how is proposing to deal w/ it? Books? Meditation? No counseling?

Just curious. I did give up my rage over my H's A *before* counseling, but how can it hurt to explore the dynamics?

Anyway, it's nothing you want to bring up on your date, that's for sure! Have fun Friday.