Don't worry about a mistake. No one "mistake" is going to blow the whole thing. There's a term for that kind of worrying---"catastrophizing," I think. A mistake is not a catastrophe.
Could you apologize for the mistake and move on? Surprise him w/ the recovery of your PMA.
I don't know your whole sitch, but is counseling a part of this? Could you leave the OR talks for then and spend a different kind of time together outside the c?
