if my H were to tell me he still needed to be around xop to support her morally and that he feels he can't let her down I'd be furious.
It's sad all those things happened to him, would situations be different, ei you were just a friend never had an A w/him then yes, it'd be great to help him out. But it isn't, he's just going to find someone else to lean to that ISN"T married or had an R with.
Keeping ties w/him will not help you nor your H, give your H priority and say good by to this man, who if he had any spine would step up and pay you what he owes you.
...but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.
piecing after separation
