Do you want to remain married to your husband? Stop communication completely. Disconnect or change the voice mail number. About the money...I would write it off as a very bad investment. It does not sound like this person is going to have the money any time soon...you are better off for the sake of saving your marriage just to forget about it and move on with your life.
You are not responsible for this persons well being. You have your marriage and your own well being to think about...that should be your priority.
"Friendship is like peeing your pants: everyone can see it, but only you can feel the true warmth."
