Impotence...about the OW

[ReDesigner]

Yes, I guess the "witch" would try to do something like that... pander to the Halloween thing. It's pretty low and pathetic, to be sure. But I'm sure it is still annoying to have that intrusion.
I've been thinking a lot about what you've been saying on how to view the whole situation. You certainly have had a lot of time to do it, however, I don't think it gets that much easier. Thank goodness there are people on this board who can continue to remind me that it's "the cheaters'" issues and not mine. I do just feel so helpless sometimes, probably because I feel my family is under attack. Right now I feel I have to rant and rave and fantasize about what I'd say to that interfering OP who's trying to mess with my D's head. However, it does satisfy me to know that H has "four" kids to try to win - and that just makes me laugh at their whole situation at how ridiculous it is. The most pathetic part is that neither of them has any clue they're embarking on a useless exercise. I guess I won't have so much to worry about because kids have their own agendas, too. They might use the adults to get "stuff" but in the end, they're hearts are with their natural parents.
I'm not trying to "compete" but the reason I say it doesn't get any easier is that H has done this before, just not so much in the way the "addiction" is intensifying now. I've been dealing with his MLC for about 8 years now when he first had a couple of EA within months of each other. This time it's full-blown... with lots of kids and legal separation dragged into the mix. I hope this time it's possible for me to really GAL and determine whether it's worth my life to continue to DB. Have you set yourself any deadlines as to when "enough's enough?"