Well, firstly, my W is in an A with another woman. This woman is seen by the kids as Mom's friend, they have no idea she's more than that. By making a big issue out of it I would be exposing the situation to the kids. They know mom and dad aren't getting along, but not the other part. So best to just let it go. As I said before, I choose to pick my own battles and this one isn't one I see as priority. How do I hold in my anger? I tell myself that this is a pathetic attempt to be a part of my kids lives. OW is no part of their lives, she never sees them so, in a way, it's utterly ridiculous for her to be sending little gifts home to them. I guess, I just keep in mind how sad and pathetic this person is. Let's face it, anyone who gets into an A with a married woman with two young children and a H who still loves his W, has to be a pretty sad case. I suppose it's meant to show my W how much she cares about our children. It's all part of the fantasy world my W is living in. Let her figure it out. So, I feel the anger and just move on. I don't let it control me. Best answer I can give you on that one.
