Hi David, You have hit the nail on the head! These are the exact words that my C said to me early in my sitch. He said to quit worrying about what would make me feel better and to start thinking about what I wanted down the road. I of course said to reconcil w/my H. So that's what I started doing. I finally realized that I couldn't fix H, that I could only work on myself. It's been 1 1/2 yrs since bomb & 1 yr since H moved out. No talk of D and minor touch and go's. I'm glad you posted, we all need encouragement from time to time. Soonergal
When we get tangled up in our problems, be still. God wants us to be still so He can untangle the knot.
