Focus on the Big Picture

[DavidA]

"Do you think I should try and tell her what I like about her one last time or just keep dark."

Hi JSD,

I don't know enough about your situation to honestly answer that. But if she is a WAW in an MLC she is probably in party mode and won't really care about your feelings for her at the moment. Saying what is on your mind may make you feel better that you have done all you can but I don't think it will invoke any kind of a different reaction from her. It's a tough situation. My X and I hugged and cried together outside the courtroom the day of the divorce hearing but it didn't change the outcome of the day. All you can do is say I still have feelings for you and this isn't what I want for us but I understand your needs and will let you go..... It's very hard to do but makes a return if it ever happens much easier as you treated her with love and respect... Good Luck TPPPL, DaveA