Focus on the Big Picture

[Valentine]

Dave,

Thanks for writing this...I feel like I focus too much on the little things and want to work more on patience and forgiveness...I want to be my H's friend...but you are right, seeing them do the nutso things they do is so painful.

I applaud you for standing and waiting patiently for your WAW to come to her senses...sort of.

It takes extreme loyalty, unconditional love and very thick skin to do this. Oh, and HUGE AMOUNTS OF PATIENCE ! Nothing about these kinds of situations happens quickly. Your friends and family will brand you as mentally ill for pursuing this course of action which makes it all even that more difficult to do.

Yes, I get that from people a lot too... Vali, you are crazy to do this; I would have D'd my H by now, etc... guess they can't see what I see.

I am glad that someone has a good story and not just a sad one...that hope springs eternal if you want it to...

God bless you.

Valentine