David, It's been a long ride for you. I vaguely recall your postings of the past, however, I'm glad to see you are still standing fast and returned to post your update.
Yes, they really do come out of the tunnel and your xw has begun to realize what a mess she created along the way while blazing through mlc. David, you are an inspiration to many and I do hope that you'll return again very soon to post another update.
I hope that everything works out for you and your xw. Please remember, she's going to have a lot of guilt for what she's done and patience, compassion and understanding will be the keys to getting the relationship back on track.
I wish you all of the best.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.