Here is something interesting, the other night H asked ME if I was getting tired of waiting for him. He wanted to make sure I wasn't about to leave HIM! That's a switch. I told him no. But then I also said that 7 months ago he would have welcomed a comment like that from me. He said things are different now. Wow. Then he asked me if I felt more secure. I said that was a trick question because anytime back between Feb-April if I dared to tell him that I was encouraged by anything he'd be sure to put me in my place and tell me that that didn't mean anything and he's been just so unhappy for so long. So I said to be truthful, yes I am a little more secure because things are better now than they were. He asked me to sit by him then. He seems to be testing the waters, maybe? Lisa