Glo, I agree that if my H really wanted out he'd have been gone, kids or not. He is more thoughtful now, he used to take off on his bike without a word and I found out (from his cell bill) that he called HER on Easter Sunday from one of his bike rides that he snuck off on and that still bothers me. I know we're not supposed to snoop but it is a good way to find out if you'e being screwed over. He doesn't talk to her on his cell anymore but I'd sure like to know if they talk between his work and her TRAILOR or are emailing. I hope not. If I find out they are I will not stand for it. He doesn't go on solo bike rides anymore, he asks me to go too and I do! Lisa


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