BK, so sorry to hear your anniversary is the terrible day in the history of this country now. I too agree that what they do is more important, actions speak louder than words. 2 days after I got the bomb back in Feb my H was all loving towards me. I think some of that was guilt. His words were so different than his actions all through this. he really had himself convinced he was done with me. I think he wanted to be. But I always knew he still cared. You just know. I mean I've known this guy for 21 years, better than anyone I would imagine. Take care, Lisa
