I strongly identify with the idea of taking "improve sex ife" off the list in favor of other things. However, my current set of interests is running in a more me, me, me direction. Like, "start meditating for 20 minutes every night", "buy a sex toy and get myself off every day", "get back on exercise program", "improve diet", "find a few girlfriends to hang out with" and "do some decorating in the house without checking with H". I am familiar with this set of feelings. This is my getting very pregnant thing. I'm not quite to the grumpy pregnant phase but I am in the insular pregnant phase - I am inner focused, focused on my own (and baby's) health and well being and ridiculously horny. Since I'm into myself for the moment I don't feel inclinded to wheedle sex out of H, I feel inclined to do it myself. Let me know how those dahlias turn out.
