I can see things like 6-pack abs and big biceps adding value to a partner that is a PT person. And the diamond jewelry would be for a GG person. How about AOS? Would doing extra chores or helping with the kids add value to the M? I would worry about it coming across as placating or supplicating. In a sense, non-verbal validating, if that makes any sense. The same could be true of the diamond jewelry.
I understand that making YOURSELF a more valuable commodity should increase desire in your SO. But how would gift-giving and acts of service (and to some degrees quality time) factor into that? Is being more helpful a partner adding value to yourself? I guess I can see that, so long as the GG and AOS are done with no desire for reciprocation. But could that be twisted around as subjegating your needs for your partners?
All this stuff is just boucing around in my head. I'm having a hard time finding clarity.
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
