LostGal, I have to admit that when I've mentioned to bf my need for physical contact he has indicated that our standing, fully-clothed hugs ARE physical contact. Like that should be enough for me.

Now in all fairness, we do sleep in naked spoon position just about every night, but strangely there doesn't appear to be anything erotic about it for either of us. Well, there isn't for me... there might be for him, but if there is, he doesn't act like it.