Lil posted
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All the things I do/am/bring definitely enrich the R-- it's just that this doesn't translate into physical desire for him.


Ditto. That is why I say I think some people don't have it to give. The books ant C sessions can help the friends part of a R, but if the libido, mechanics behind libido are gone, what can a person expect.

I can imagine a ED but caring bf to say "Lil, let me hold you while we do X with my hand or whatever." But I don't know how to get that point across to BB in our situation. Hence, broken equipment results/leads to a Corri moment "You can't see it till you see it," for the OP. They don't see it.

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keeping anxiety at bay while I watch bf sliding into depression, sad over girls leaving home, his office is not calling him with sales leads anymore, he never opens his mail


Lil, I have to be honest with you, I did some of the things you listed but got myself out of it with some help from books, the C, and of course all of you folks here and on another forum I post on.
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I truly don't know what I'm going to do. I guess I'll just wait until I know.


(((((Lil)))))

Don't worry about a hi-jack. You need to post what you want to.

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I'm such a glutton for punishment.


That resembles some other posters. No names for now.

Lou