I really don't want to agree with Barbiedoll. But sorry, I think I've got to.
I'm not saying that the two of you will not someday be together again...but you've got to let that go...shrug it away...something that may or may not happen and either way you will have a great life.
As for a ritual to hld accept an ending. Barbiedoll slipped that one in too...perhaps it was buried.
But it needs emphasis.
You need to move. Posters are suggesting you stop contacting him...but even without deliberate contact there is contact...you live in the same building. I'm sorry, but I just don't think you will be able to let go until you remove yourself from his presence.
It's like marriage counseling with three--futile.
It hate saying that. You know I'm a Stander and that I want the two of you back together...whether legally married or not you wer eemotionally so, and I beleive that's enough for God.
Maybe he will consciously miss you if you aren't always close by...who knows. The important thing is to not use that as your motivation. Focus on you.
HUGS,
RCR
PS:
Finally_Free's question was a good one...and free of sarcasm and undertones. This is something you do need to think about. And then help us...answer the question here on the board.
Last edited by Rollercoasterider; 12/03/0604:13 PM.
