WL: Please leave this man alone. He is no longer yours. He has made that clear. I hate to say this but you've known it before and just fall back into that deep abyss. Divorce Remedy has you believing it all over again. But its really all about you. YOU contact him. YOU make demands of him. YOU tell him how much he hurt you. But he is just too nice of a guy to take a stand and hurt you more. That is why he lets you come over. He listens while you berate him once more. But he is not making any moves himself.

I thought you were going out with others, moving forward, making new friends, getting a life. Your posts today have shocked me. I don't see that you've got past this at all.

Please go back to counselling. Please get a new apt. Please forget this man. Remember...

If you love something set it free. If it is yours - it will come back to you. If it doesn't - it never really was.

Give the man his space. He deserves that.

Barb