He mentioned some movies he thought I would like, recommended some places etc. THis really is truly different from before where I didn't even exist.
I told him that I had changed my mail address and was sorry that they kept sending stuff to him anyway. He said, it's not a big deal, it doesn't happen that often.
I love how the two of us don't always have to be talking. There were several pauses and silences. We just looked at each other. Actually stared at each other in the eye.
When I said he never seemed to be home during the first conversation, his answer was I'mnot, I'mworking, not --I'm notcause I'm with someone else etc....
He spoke about hisbro-inlaw and his bus partner whom were best friends before had huge sucess, some power plays and now aren't even talking.
He just thought it was awful.
I agreed and said, that is why I've done my best to let go of anger and grudges because thisis our life, it's only once and it's really not worth it to me to hold a grudge and not have him in my life. This sunk in.And then I gave him credit and said, apparantly the same wasfor him, because he didn't seem to be holding any grudges etc. I wanted tovalidate that he has reason to be angry at me also.
