My final word then I'm out of here. whitelight, by resorting to profanity in reply to a person that just apologized to you makes you out in a worse light to anyone seeing things logically. Don't know your whole situation but would advise that you could either find a more positive way to interact with men (which is just about anything but please, thank you and you're welcome are always a good start) or on the other hand continue to surround yourself with women that tell you everything you do is all right no matter what it may be that you do or say. We've all made mistakes in the past, it's where we go from here on out that counts. And on that note, I'm out before being engulfed in potential estrogen flood. Best of luck to all, RJ

RonJon