Whitelight I considered intervening, and didn't. Please don't stop posting. We have all been too hurt to tolerate any more bashing on this particular board.
I think there are more sensitive ways of pointing things out to people [that is not to say that I think even the criticism that you got was in any way justified].
We are all here for you, so don't worry about putting your pointof view forward. Part of posting is a healing process, part an exchange of views [and fun], and this helps us to significantly grow. We learn form each other, but I don't think that harsh criticism ever helps people to grwo. Tough love is another matter . . ..!!!
