point taken i won't invade you space again but think carefully about what you just posted I think you are talking about yourself.you are also the persecutor you love to play the victim and your codependency on your ex makes you the rescuer. this would be calling the kettle black. its ok i have no issues with you. i just think it is such a sad thing that you can not move from this place. happy thanksgiving and just to reiterate your words so you know i understood them i will gladly f off from your thread.