oh and by the way I do not hate you and if you are ready to grow up and be the woman you are destined to be I will be there for you but not a moment sooner.
nobody here wants to tell you the truth for fear of pushing you over the edge.it is time to grow up WL.Can you not see the humor in the posts you write, it really is entertaining.For my cartoon I see an amerasian woman with black hair cut in a typical blunt cut. she sits by her computer and daydreams .she write fatalistic poetry and is constantly questioning herself.in one of the episodes she decides to get a roomie to help with the bills. finally he moves in and then again in her fickle mind she decides he has to go.she spends more hours of finding ways to get rid of him and plays the various scenarios over and over in her head. finally he leaves and the episode closes with her redoing her budget and wondering how she is going to pay the rent this month.Just then exboyfriend walks by the window and she takes out her voodoo doll and smiles, the credits run.
FF: I have been posting on this bb for 5 years. I HAVE a life! I still come here to vent once in a while and to support some of those who still need some help. The last thing they need is a kick in the teeth.
I found your posts to WL to be mean and spiteful, rude, insensitive and FRANKLY - none of your business. Why would you go out of your way to be so hurtful???
Sometimes people need a nudge to get on with their life - they don't need a sledge hammer. If you don't like what she posts - don't read it.
I rarely respond to garbage but these posts DEMAND it. I can certainly understand why your wife left you.
FF, I get where you are coming from and sometimes people do need a straghtforward wake-up call and not always be molly coddled. Point taken and to maintain the civility of these boards you should consider an apology. It's not appropriate to just say "no offense but..." and then let loose with anything you want to, offense was taken and if not intentinal, then an apology should be in order.
And would expect a thank you after that from WL for being given a frank an honest opinion and which can help more than always being reaffirmed. RJ
point taken i won't invade you space again but think carefully about what you just posted I think you are talking about yourself.you are also the persecutor you love to play the victim and your codependency on your ex makes you the rescuer. this would be calling the kettle black. its ok i have no issues with you. i just think it is such a sad thing that you can not move from this place. happy thanksgiving and just to reiterate your words so you know i understood them i will gladly f off from your thread.