Sounds like a plan. And now just detach, detach, detach. That is how I keep my sanity as well. Enjoy his company if you can but otherwise be the best you can be for yourself and your kids and if he wants to come along for the ride, great. If not, his loss. Easier said than done when you want a great marriage relationship NOW, but perhaps you will get it LATER.

God Bless,
BethJ

H 40 Me 40 married 15 years 5 children aged 2-11 Bomb 2-6-05 Now we are piecing, I think