I am going to accept the fact that I'm a good person. The changes I made in myself while DBing have made me into the kind of person I like (finally). I'm not going to regret trying to save this because, in doing that, I saved myself.

I finally like me. I'm a good person. I get to decide how I'm going to spend the rest of my life. I am going to accept the fact that he is not capable of respecting me or my family. I'm going to be fine, even better than I was before.

I'm going to pray that he will find happiness and I'm going to keep myself open to the possibility that he may find his way home, but I would rather be a good person alone than a good wife in a bad marriage.


H-44
M-36
Married 6/7/03
8/17/06 - H not sure he wants to be married any more
8/17/06-present - Just crawling through the rubble that's left of my life
2/8/07 - H admitted affair