My H has had irrational anger since this whole mess began as well. In fact, it could have turned ugly yesterday if I had not walked away. Sometimes I think how we respond to their anger can escalate the tension. I have even seen my H be somewhat abusive to our S11, but usually it is after me expressing my anger over some deed of S11. He always realizes how wrong he was and apologizes to S and me, but it can be scary nonetheless.
Can you give us some specifics on how this happened? Please don't get me wrong - what your H did was unacceptable under ANY circumstances. I just wonder if there are any dynamics going on that may indicate a pattern here.
God Bless, BethJ
H 40
Me 40
married 15 years
5 children aged 2-11
Bomb 2-6-05
Now we are piecing, I think
