Well, guys, I'm afraid this is the end of the road for me. I guess some people are DBers at heart and others are not. I tried to stay positive, I tried to have fun w/him last night, but he had a few drinks and the conversation turned to OW (I honestly don't think I brought it up, but somehow we ended up on the topic). He grew furious again. I stayed calm. I stayed calm. I stayed calm.
He called this morning to "apologize." Said last night was all his fault, said he lashes out because he's "ashamed" and he "crossed the line." So, I'm thinking this is good, he's finally seeing that the relationship w/her was wrong & I'm starting to feel somewhat assured that it may not be an issue any longer.
Then he said, "If it happens again, I will hit you." I'm kind of trying to understand how "It's all my fault, but if it happens again I'll hit you" makes sense, even to him. But apparently it does so I'm out.
Thanks for trying everyone.
H-44 M-36 Married 6/7/03 8/17/06 - H not sure he wants to be married any more 8/17/06-present - Just crawling through the rubble that's left of my life 2/8/07 - H admitted affair
