This is NOT what I expected!

[InHisHands]

They work together, so it's a "have to" thing.

Some day I'll have to get clarification on the boundaries thing . . . not real clear on the difference between boundaries & demands, but for now, I'm going to change the momentum of my thoughts.

I'm falling into the "I want what I want and I want it NOW" trap. So, to start my weekend off right, I'm going to remind myself of some positives:

1) He is more patient than ever.
2) We are having more fun than ever.
3) He is more attentive than ever.
4) I am less judgmental than ever.
5) We are living together again.
6) We are going to church together again.
7) He likes spending time with me (as long as I avoid R talks)
8) He is more involved in home/finances/family.
9) He thinks I'm hot (and he ain't too shabby either!!
10) Sex is better than EVER!

And that's just off the top of my head. When I think about it, the positives far outweigh the negatives. I'm going to have to come back and re-read my list and add to it as I can. Maybe this will help me keep my PMA up during those times when I'm tempted to only see the bad.