Hi there, Not liking the be the wife he wants part. The only long term solution is to be the person you are proud to be, the real you. That is who H fell in love with, and that is who you need be become again. Do not change for H, change for yourself, and if he does not like it, then it is better than trying to be someone you are not for the rest of your life. Holly
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
