Hmmm, what was I expecting? I really don't know. I think I was just expecting him to say, "yeah, we really should plan more stuff as a family." I don't know. I really didn't think it was a dangerous topic. If it had occurred to me that it might cause a melt-down, I would have definitely planned the timing better. I just thought it was a simple comment letting him know what I'd like us to do in the future. I was VERY careful to say it in an upbeat, non-judgmental way.
I've spent almost three months filling his needs, changing myself to be the wife he wants, but this last thing, the part where he wants a wife who doesn't want anything, I just can't seem to be that, or even to pretend to be that.
DB Coach is probably my best option right now. If there is an option now. I think I'll call at lunch.
H-44 M-36 Married 6/7/03 8/17/06 - H not sure he wants to be married any more 8/17/06-present - Just crawling through the rubble that's left of my life 2/8/07 - H admitted affair
