Should I or should I not get involved..7 mos apart

[maryfromaustin]

I haven't read your post. What's your situation? Are you divorced already or not even there? Mine unfortunately filed for divorce the month after he left. I still don't know why he left. Sure he said he didn't love me anymore and that he never did (don't they all). He hasn't said he's having an affair so i can't point fingers, yet.

are you even trying to salvage your marriage? i am trying. i'm working on the LRT and i have seen small changes but none that can assure me he's thinking of me. i'm at that point that whatever happens...happens. i'm tired of pushing and crying and wasting my life on him. i'm happy right now. i'm happy that this happened to me. i was going in the wrong direction before he left. i did too many things that a wife shouldn't have done. (not infidelity) so now, i see myself and am happy that I made the initiative of changing ME not him. he's gonna have to work on himself on his own. i can't change him. i have my down days but i think i have more positive days. how old are you? i don't think i saw that info on your post. me = i'm 33 and have 3 kids. married 10 yrs now and two months without anti-depressants. like i said, i have my down days but i pray alot and look to Him for guidance. it's true what people say about the bible. just think of your problem and ask God to guide you, give you an answer and then open the bible (doesn't matter where). i've done this and i read the scripture over and over to try to understand it and somehow it does relate to my problem and the answer is there. am i rambling????? sorry. anyway, i don't drink like you think. i only had a few drinks last night because i ...well, felt like having fun and wanted to put my H on the backburner.