Poor Mary.... I know how you feel! My H will be leaving in a few weeks,so he says, and I am 35 and very seriously sexually Frrrrustrated already! That is a hard one (no pun intended). I think you should go with the bible idea and maybe slam the cover down a good few times while your head is in there just to make sure, although I suspect it is not your head that is the guilty "part" so to speak. According to Dr. Joy Brown & Dr. Laura one should not date for one year after a divorce because you really need time to sort through all of your feelings and come to settled, peaceful terms with them. You don't want to mistakenly and possibly even unknowingly identify some of your STBx's traits within another and inadvertantly just end up with a replacement relationship with the potential for the same old problems. You need time to heal and grow and to become self sufficient and to give your H every last chance to come around because that is what we do when we make that vow of in sickness or in health.Mine is nuttier than multicolored monkey $h!t right now and I am looking almost forward to a break and hoping that the separation will allow him to figure it all out, in my favor, of course. God, I miss sex. That was one area where we were NEVER in disagreement. Go have a few chocolate bars, I think I read somewhere that chocolate can quell the urge for sex in some women to some extent. Well, gotta go and riffle through the pantry now. PLease pray up a Hershey bar or two for me in there, would ya? I'll do the same for you...(Gulp).
