flying solo, You chimed in on my post,and thank you for doing that, so I thought I'd check out yours. We do seem to have some similarities. I read your first post, and many of the others, but obviously not all.
I'm not feeling wise enough to give you great advise, but I will tell you that you (we) are fighting the good fight, we can succeed, and it will make us better, regardless of the outcome in our M's, in the end. Like you, I need words of encouragement. I used to get them from my W. My friends are good, but not always enough. We - I'll speak for everyone on in her - are rooting for you.
Feel free to post whenever. If you have the time, catch me up with your sitch.
It's scary, sad, and comforting in a way to see how many different people are in the same spot. It's also good to know there is a plan, and something we can do to make the sitch better for us and our kids, and with luck or Relationships.
nice to meet you. wish it were under different circumstances.
M45, W4,S15, D10,
Bomb 10/3/06, Moved back in 11/6/06
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