I'm sensing it may be a good time for a heartfelt letter or card. When she asks "Do you love me" it takes you right off guard but it leaves an opening for a true heartfelt love letter, not the gobblygook kind, but one that really expresses how you feel about your W. Something like "last night you asked me if I loved you, tonite I'm going to answer straight from my heart... and go for it! It allows you to really open up without the anxiety of having to come up with stuff right on the spot (we guys aren't so good at that!). I'd like to know what others on the BB think about this idea?
Just to add quickly, I think your W is really pondering her life and your future together right now. Give her something to make her choose you! Good luck.

Last edited by whatisis; 11/10/06 02:05 PM.

Divorced February 27, 2012.

"Only by love is love awakened".~ Ellen G White