Flying_Solo, It sounds like your W has the guilts! If she discovers you cheating (and you aren't, of course)then it will legitimize what she is doing. I wonder if not going on the weekend is also the guilts? You say she's depressed and that would be a pretty natural response to putting yourself and your family in one sh!tty position. As for the hurt you feel inside, in what way are you doing it to yourself? Are you ruminating over the sitch,over your W's betrayal, feeling sorry for yourself or is it something else? Some more info would be helpful. I do think it is positive that she is not going on the weekend but it's just a beginning. Again, think about what was missing from your M and try to fill that void as much as possible. I you were a lousy listening, learn how to listen better...you know the drill by now! Keep on Flying high.
