How have you dealt with the thought of protecting yourself and children and at the same time sit back as your wife choses to carry on with the A. I realize what I am talking about is boundries; however, it is a delicate issue that a wrestle with daily. If it was just me it would be easy; however, I believe one of the parents has to put the children's needs first. Anyway I was just wondering if anyone else had these same thoughts. Thanks