Thanks for sharing your experience. I am leaning towards not telling her that I know. One of the toughest things I have ever had to do, but I am not sure that it will get me closer to my goal. One of the problems is the lack of trust we now have and as a result we are truly living in a decietfull relationship where nothing can be trusted. I guess we may have been here for a long time with me just realizing it now. It is amazing how I seem to be behind the curve on just about everything dealing with my wife. I will keep working on my PMA and GAL. This is definitly the only hope I have. Thanks for the input and please let me know what you thinking.
