whatisis That is some good advice, tell me what you think of this:
I beleive that what I need to do is just focus on the decisions I make for myself and how I want to live my life in the household with her. i.e. If I want to do something special for her, I should do it and not expect any kind of response back from her. I should invite her to join me and the kids and if she does not want to I should go without her. One of my problems is that she is being nice to me lately due to the fact that she has this upcomming getaway planned, again however that should not matter if I am focused on myself.
The other issue is everyone I know tells me to protect myself, hire the PI and get the proof of what is happening. I do not want to fire off the shot that sends us in a differnet direction and these people care about me and are not in my shoes. Trying to decide if I move to that level with attorney's and PI's because it clearly does not accomplish what I want to accomplish in the end; however, I do not want to wind up bitter, broke with no way to see my children.
