Good luck in your quest and keep posting on here...it is going to be a long tough journey. I respect your decision to stay and work on things...I think one reason it was easy for me to give up on my situation is my W choosing to leave our child with me...if she was threatening to take my S to another state I think I also would have chose a different path.
Does anyone think he should try and stop his wifes trip? This is a tough question...if he confronts her on it...it will likely escalate the situation...if he lets her go she just gets closer and closer to OM. WAW/A seem to hate to be cornered or feel pressure from the LBS and invariably do just the opposite of what is pressured.
"Friendship is like peeing your pants: everyone can see it, but only you can feel the true warmth."
