Lou, phew I dunno, you guys work really hard for us and we just don't appreciate it huh. You know what I think BB needs - I think she needs you to spoil her. For once let the careful spender take a back seat and really spoil her. I know that would be tough for you (I know where you're coming from - I have a hard time parting myself from hard-earned cash too) but I get the feeling that she feels restrained by you. The more you restrain her the more she wants to let rip. My dad has a good secret for spoiling someone when you haven't got a lot of spare cash - buy something small (like a box of cookies) but buy a really expensive box. Like normally you'd pay $2.00 let rip and cough up $10.00
Alpha, thanks for your kind message. Y'know I did feel hurt at your first message but it stopped me in my tracks and made me think - painful but good for me - so thanks It was the 2nd message that annoyed me, the one where you reckoned I was too defensive to answer you. Anyhoo our sitches are different but that doesn't mean we can't gain insight from each other. Sounds like you and Mrs Mole have a pretty healthy R just got one thing not quite clicking - care to come out of lurkage and enlighten us?
Fran
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It was the 2nd message that annoyed me, the one where you reckoned I was too defensive to answer you. Anyhoo our sitches are different but that doesn't mean we can't gain insight from each other. Sounds like you and Mrs Mole have a pretty healthy R just got one thing not quite clicking - care to come out of lurkage and enlighten us?
