Quote: The weird thing is the guys are jumping on me now because I am seeing myself from H's point of view.
Fran, I jump on you because some of what AM said, I also felt as a H, so maybe your H thought/felt that way too.
My post was to say, gees, I know I screw up but it feels like I am doing my job but it is not coming out like my W expects.
A long time ago when few people went out to eat, I promised BB we would eat out once a week. We did for a long time.
Then one week, BB had two rough days so we went out for burgers and fries a couple of times, spent the "eat out money" and come Sunday we went out for burgers and fries again. BB wanted to know why we didn't go to a medium priced restaurant as planned and that i agreed to. I said we spent our eat out money on burgers and fried potatoes/chips, and once spent, money can't be re spent.
I remember you had a situation about child care and vacations where your H agreed to something in advance, but he thought by doing some child care days earlier, he was off the hook on his regular day.
Quote: I actually think there's not much I could put in a personal ad that would put men off.
Indecisive personalities or promise breakers need not apply!
Fran, I am wishing you all the successes in the world.
